In My Heart’s the Memory: A Farewell to Roxie, the Pekingese Who Carried Her Family Through Everything

There are dogs who walk beside us in simple companionship—and then there are dogs like Roxie, who become silent witnesses to every joy, heartbreak, and milestone of a life fully lived.
Roxie, a small Pekingese with a lion’s mane and the heart of a warrior, was more than a pet to her human. She was there when she walked down the aisle to say “I do.” She was there through the devastating pain of miscarriage, and the quiet, slow healing that followed. Roxie was there for the miracle of motherhood—three children born into a home already filled with love because of her.
She made two cross-country moves feel a little less daunting. She watched over the family like a guardian angel in fur, bringing peace in chaos and routine in uncertainty. And when grief came crashing down again with the sudden loss of her human’s 8-year-old niece, Roxie didn’t ask questions. She just stayed. She curled up in laps. She licked away tears. She was, in every sense, a healer.
On her final day, Roxie didn’t ride to the vet alone. She lay in the lap of the person she had loved most in this world. A familiar voice sang softly to her—Mary Chapin Carpenter’s “10,000 Miles”—a lullaby for a journey neither of them wanted, but both accepted with grace. Though Roxie had gone deaf in her old age, the song still calmed her, as if she remembered its rhythm in her soul.
And in the most sacred moment, as her tired heart slowed and she fell into the deepest sleep, her human sang the words from The Fox and the Hound—
“Goodbye may seem forever, farewell is like the end, but in my heart’s the memory, and there you’ll always be.”
Now, Roxie is gone from this world, but she’s everywhere in the house—on the steps she once climbed, in the silence where her paws once tapped, and in every memory etched in the hearts of those who were lucky enough to be loved by her.
Some companions walk into our lives. Others carry us through it.
Roxie was the latter. And someday, somewhere, she’ll be waiting—small, proud, and ready to walk her human home again.